🌟 Starting School: Little Steps That Make a Big Difference 🌟

As children get ready for school, there are lots of small, everyday skills that can help them feel more happy, confident and independent. Every child is different – these are gentle ideas, not a checklist.

Here are some simple things you can practise together at home:

👕 Getting dressed
Let your child have a go at putting on their coat and shoes. Velcro shoes and zip‑up coats are great confidence boosters!

🚽 Using the toilet & washing hands
Practising toilet routines and handwashing helps children stay healthy and feel more independent. Singing a short song while washing hands can make it fun.

🍎 Eating independently
Encourage your child to feed themselves and practise opening lunchboxes or wrappers if they’ll have a packed lunch.

💬 Telling adults what they need
Help your child practise asking for help, a drink, the toilet, or saying how they feel – using words, signs, pictures or devices. Whatever works for them is brilliant.

👂 Listening & following simple instructions
Try games like copying actions or giving one or two simple instructions during daily routines. Praise effort, not perfection.

👫 Spending time with others
Playdates, playgroups or the park all help. Don’t worry if your child plays alongside others rather than with them – that’s a great start.

📖 Focusing for short periods
Reading a story, doing a puzzle or playing a calm game for a few minutes helps build attention. Little and often works best.

🔄 Sharing & taking turns
Board games, building together or rolling a ball back and forth are fun, low‑pressure ways to practise.

😊 Talking about feelings
Use everyday moments and stories to talk about emotions – your child’s and others’. There’s no right or wrong answer.

👋 Spending time away from you
If possible, gently build up short times with other trusted adults. Staying calm and reassuring (even when it’s hard!) really helps.

✨ Remember: Every child develops in their own way and at their own pace. Focus on what works for your child, and let school know what helps them best – we’re all in this together.

For more information on school readiness, click here: Preparing for school – Best Start in Life 

For further advice: Home – Starting Reception

Here’s a handy guide to help you help your child to start reception: Guide to Starting Reception

For specific advice around Potty Training: The Potty Training Guide – Starting Reception

The Potty Training Guide

For support with toothbrushing: The Children’s Toothbrushing Guide – Starting Reception

The Children’s Toothbrushing Guide